Being Dis-Charged

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Permalink Reply by Seabee85 on August 20, 2009 at 12:22pm

I think the 40% figure that you heard is probably from the statistic that 40% of those who join the Navy don't make it through a full term of service (their agreed-upon contract). That would include boot camp, A school, and active service discharge for medical reasons (including pregnancy), behavioral issues, AWOL, etc.
The percentage of recruits who make it through BC is about 82%. Of the 18% who don't make it about 4% are unable to pass the PT-2, so the odds are with most who join to make it through. I don't know how many are diagnosed with a mental stress disorder or are discharged for medical reasons from BC.
It is in the Navy's best interest to help recruits through; they spend a lot of money to transport, feed, and train them to be sailors.

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Permalink Reply by elkeschnauzer on August 20, 2009 at 2:55pm

I am so sorry. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

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Permalink Reply by Moose on August 20, 2009 at 5:36pm

Just wanted to let you know my thoughts are with you and your daughter. I hope she will be alright.

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Permalink Reply by johnsmom on August 20, 2009 at 6:43pm

Well, I have n weird one...today my son, who is in week 3 of BC received a letter from a gut that is/was in his ship/division. It was addressed to him at our home address. I was concerned so I opened it. This person said "it must be great being out of there.". I am concerned he has been let go and we don't know it yet. Anyone have another explanation I might have?

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Permalink Reply by LASHONDA(SON) DIV 337 SHIP 09 on August 20, 2009 at 6:52pm

Did you read it correctly. If he is out, then where could he be. They don't let the parents know this stuff. What is going on with that letter.

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Permalink Reply by Mattsmom on August 20, 2009 at 8:16pm

I would suggest you call the recrutier. Many of the recruits like playning jokes on each other and families. Your sons recruiter can tell you if he is in GL or not. Don't give up until you get an answer. Good luck.Mattsmom/Brenda

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Permalink Reply by wstarkey on August 20, 2009 at 11:25pm

Sounds like it could be a prank. But it may not be. I know my daughter was really upset when she called and told us what was going on because she felt like a failure and was afraid she was a disappointment. Of course we reassured her that we are still proud of her and that this is not her fault but she still feels bad and if they are sending your son home he could feel the same way and may be afraid to tell you. they are telling us it will take two weeks to get her home. She left her div and was put into ship 5 for processing. He could be there. If he is he has had access to phones and the Internet maybe you can tell if he has checked his myspace (it tells you the last login date) or email or voicemail on his cell phone. I know those were some of the first things my daughter did. Good luck and keep us informed.

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Permalink Reply by NavyAnnie'sMom on August 21, 2009 at 11:50am

omigosh... I would be really stressing. Hugs to you!!!***

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Permalink Reply by Nadine Premo on August 21, 2009 at 6:38am

I wish I had some answers for you. Just want to wish you and your daughtger the best. I hope she gets the treatment she needs.

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Permalink Reply by pocobueno on August 21, 2009 at 3:50pm

I received a lettr from my son yesterday. He mentioned he was losing his mind. I know how confusing it could be for you. I've been crying for him, writing to him and I even tried to get some information from his recruiter. I feel I need to know what to expect. I am at a loss. He was supposed to graduate on 9/11. I know he'll get over this. The military is not for everyone. But I had hopped he would take the time to see the bigger picture. I will pray for you and your daughter.

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Permalink Reply by wstarkey on August 21, 2009 at 7:31pm

As I will for you. Thank you, marrissa and everyone else who has sent their best wishes and prayers.

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Permalink Reply by Marissa "Proud Nuke Mom" on August 21, 2009 at 5:57pm

Hi there, I hope you are holding up well... Have you heard anymore from your daughter? Well I will keep you in our prayers.

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