He lied to me and I don't know that it's worth it anymore
He lied to me about a friendship he has with a woman he goes to school with. He made me believe she annoyed him and I found out that they're pretty good friends. He sees her everyday. They talk on the phone probably more that I do with him. And I'm so angry with him. We have a long distance Relationship and I live 3,000 miles away from and I'm hardly apart of his life. He hasn't cheated on me yet but if he lied about their relationship he can lie about the extent of it. I've lost all my faith on hi
And all my trust in him and our relationship. I'm just thinking is it worth it. I don't know anymore. I care a lot about him bit it scares me. I've been with him for 3 & 1/2 years and I just don't know anymore. Help me please ladies. Am I being foolish because I'm angry at him and so jealous of her that I despise her? Am I just being stupid?
And all my trust in him and our relationship. I'm just thinking is it worth it. I don't know anymore. I care a lot about him bit it scares me. I've been with him for 3 & 1/2 years and I just don't know anymore. Help me please ladies. Am I being foolish because I'm angry at him and so jealous of her that I despise her? Am I just being stupid?
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Permalink Reply by Danner921 on -
It makes me sad to hear these stories. My husband and I spend a great deal apart as well. It's hard to trust at first, I think. Then one day I realized that he is a Marine and Marines live by "Semper Fi". I haven't had a problem with doubt in my heart since. I put two and two together. Semper Fidelis and Semper Fortis ; "Always Faithful and Always Strong"
Just live by those words. Everything happens for a reason. This may just be one of those hurdles you have to jump over in your relationship.
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Permalink Reply by Michaels#1Fan on -
Thank you so very much for all your advice. We seperated. We just realized with the distance and the mistrust our relationship was doomed. He says we're going to get back together, me I'd like to hope so but I don't think it will happen. We've just recently broken up. The wound is still really fresh and it's really difficult to let someone who was such a big part of my life go but it was necessary. We were just growing in different directions....him towards other women by the idiot advice his friends give him because they all assume I'm a whore. But it's okay because I'm off at college. I have other fish to fry and if we're meant to be it will happen. I just wanted to thank you all, and to all you women who have spouses in the military I commend you. I wasn't a significant other with a member of the military for long but I do understand that it is very difficult and it has it's trials. I wish we could have made it but I'm beginning to understand why we couldn't. Thank you and good luck to all of you.
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Permalink Reply by Bella on -
So sorry to hear that you separated, but it might open up doors to someone new who will treat you the way you deserve. Or you might just want to be casual and have fun with little to no stress of a relationship. Best wishes, Dear and experience the hell out of college! It can be a time of learning in all aspects of life. Drink it in!
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Permalink Reply by Anti M on -
Thank you for taking the time to tell how things went. Sorry to hear it did not work, but you'll move on to better days. Be kind to yourself in the meantime. All the best to you and enjoy college!
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Permalink Reply by Cheri (L.A. FT Mom) on -
Life will send you on many unexpected journeys. Just don't fear them...embrace them.
You'll be fine.
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Permalink Reply by Navy Wife Ginnibean on -
Everything happens for a reason, remember that, embrace that, and never let anything hold you down for too long. My husband and I didn't do the on again off again thing, but when we were dating we did go our separate ways twice over almost 3 years time, we didn't really keep in touch much and didn't see each other, but it allowed us each to grow in ways that we needed to and probably couldn't have done if we were together. By the time we got together the 3rd time, we were both where we needed to be. We knew right away and got married 8 months later, just celebrated 7 year wedding anniversary last month. You seem strong willed and optimistic, I wish you the best!
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