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My son is coming home, he's coming home on a medical discharge. He went through boot, then went off to sub school. I notice that he wasn't himself everytime we talked but he always told me it was ok and everything was fine. A mom knows when something is wrong. He's coming home Monday, today I talked to his brother and he said Ry has been on anti depression drugs since boot. Why did they wait so long to send him home? Why didn't someone call us and let us know how depressed he was? I have so many question and I can't wait to get him home. I know I need to let him tell me in his own time, why and what happen.
Hope all had a great holiday.

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Hi Kathy,

I just read your story of your son's medical discharge and I feel for you and for him. Wanted to let you know that I'm praying for you both. Praying that the good Lord grants you both peace, understanding and wisdom to deal with what lies ahead. And that you both move pass this with the steady realization that this too shall pass!!

I believe that we all fall down from time to time, but what is important is that we get up again. It seems we mothers worry alot but also as we mother our adult children we must balance the worry with a sense of letting go. Allowing our adult child to come to us with their worries and concern while letting them know that we are always there for them when needed. God bless, Sherry

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Hi Kathy,

I wish I could send you a hug. I understand how you're feeling. I want to know everything that's going on with my son, because he's "my baby", but as others have said - They've joined the Navy, and they're men/women now. Unfortunately, we don't have the right to their medical records anymore.

I know you'll be very supportive of your son when he returns, I can tell by what you've said already. But, remember that he's probably going to feel uncomfortable to begin with.. people don't like to talk about Depression, even in this day and age. Depression is real, and it can totally ruin a person.

Please be sure your son gets in with a qualified physician. Make sure it's Depression, and not something that is being masked as Depression.

When he gets home he's yours again. You'll be able to take care of him like we all want to take care of our kids.

Hugs,

Melanie

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