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Permalink Reply by Beebspayne on June 16, 2009 at 10:44am

Hi Jessesmom,
Try getting ahold of the chaplin of where your son is stationed. Alot of the kids go through the depression, thier lives have totally changed from what they are used too. But try the chaplin they are there for the service men and thier families. Good Luck, Beebs

Permalink Reply by Shirley (Cleveland Mom) on June 16, 2009 at 11:09am

Good morning Jessesmom! Wow this was a tough thing to read but glad you are seeking out help for him. I totally agree with navywoman16. PLEASE adhere to that advice, it sounds or seems to be the path to take. At least it's a start for him. I WILL keep you in my prayers, have faith, trust and believe that God will help you and your son an he will. Blessings to you and your family. You are doing the right thing by seeking help.

Permalink Reply by Achseh on June 16, 2009 at 12:22pm

Military One Source 1.800.342.9647

They can help with counseling (even over the phone).

You son needs to understand, however, and Military One source will help him with this, that the Navy must know of any medications he is taking, so going to a source outside the military is only good for counseling, not medication for depression. He may temporarily need medication.

His first call should be the chaplain and if not the chaplain, then Military one source. They are free and confidential. Make the call mom if he won't.

PS why is he in the hospital?

Permalink Reply by Jessesmom on June 17, 2009 at 9:28am

thank you so much for the hotline! I am goin to call them today.
He is in the hospital recovering from in juries from a car accident that occured due to his condition.
This is why I'm urgently seeking help.
He seems to be getting better but he is very strong willed and loves the Navy and dosnt want to give them a black eye by appearing weak. That why its so important to keep this quiet as i can.
He dosnt know I'm on here and would probably be mad at me for doing so but I feel helpless and will do all and anything i can to help him or get the help he needs. He is going to make the Navy a top notch Sailor once he recovers!!!
You are very kind and helpful to share your knowledge with me...
Bless you!

Permalink Reply by Brenda S., aka, Sailor Moon on June 16, 2009 at 4:10pm

Hi Mom. Just want you know your son and family are in my prayers. Please take the advise and seek the help he needs. When he called you mom, it was a cry for help. I pray all goes well for him and he gets the help he needs, that is what is important right now/ Stay blessed.

Permalink Reply by Cynthia (#410) on June 16, 2009 at 5:32pm

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Dear Jesse's Mom, I can feel your pain. I have been struggling with depression for quite a few years now. I think I'm finally learning to live just one day at a time. My heart goes out to you and your sailor. I don't know what to tell you except that I/we (NavyForMoms) are here for you. I wish I could just take it all away for you. All I know that you can do is to let go and let God work it out. I'll be praying for you and Jesse for sure.
Hugs & prayers,
Cindy

Permalink Reply by John and Yvonne Wagner on June 16, 2009 at 5:45pm

Jessesmom,

I concur with those who have suggested that your son get in touch with the chaplain immediately. And make sure he understands that needs to tell him what he's told you. Don't hold that back and paint a different picture for the chaplain. lHe should also go to sick call and see the doctor and tell him what he is feeling.

John

Permalink Reply by akyn21 on June 16, 2009 at 9:40pm

He needs to go to a ffsc counselor

Permalink Reply by Sue-Pillowcase lady on June 16, 2009 at 10:01pm

Jessesmom,

I am so sorry to hear of his troubles. Please follow thru on the advice here. You make the call even if he gets mad at you.

if you send me a pm with his address I willl send him a pillowcase. that is my project on the Molly's adopt a sailor site. Maybe he could use a bunch of Navy Momma love. Please check us out.

Permalink Reply by Jessesmom on June 17, 2009 at 9:22am

thaks I will check it out , i have not heard of it before...

Permalink Reply by karin ferry on June 16, 2009 at 11:14pm

Hallo Jessismom, I think it is very important that he knows you are there for him no matter what.Support him and listen.Depression is very serious.I agree with Melody.I also have experience with depressed people and one of the worst things is if we don't take them serious.He might get mad at you but you only take care of him Later he'll understand.
God bless and take care.

Permalink Reply by Ombudsman on June 16, 2009 at 11:24pm

Dear Jessesmom - I found this forum and joined specfically because I saw your post.
Your son needs help and he needs to know he's not alone. The scariest part of having PTSD is feeling out of control and like you should be able to "buck up and deal with it." If you could "just deal with it", you would! And there wouldn't be a name for it...this is a "syndrome" that prevents the brain from reacting normally to stress, caused by a severe stress.

If he wants something confidential, I saw someone else finally listed MilitaryOneSource. The whole purpose behind it is to be a one-stop-shop for military members who need help, and if necessary, confidentially. Please, help him understand that he's not alone and he's not abnormal. There is help for him, but he has to take the first step. If he had an infection, would he take antibiotics? Same thing...

Good luck and you're both in my thoughts.

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