ALUMNI-PIR July 17 Div 242-251, 835 & 934-935

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Comment by Becca on November 10, 2009 at 6:16pm

Glad your son is home Trish!! I so want to hear about the parking ticket Tricia!!!!!!!!! CONGRATS SMOKE, I am so freakin happy for you. Or should I call you SMOKE ROCKSLICE lol. I am so sorry to hear about everything that is going on Beckilynn. Things do happen for a reason. Nobody ever leans until the try it. He will learn from his mistakes and it will make him a better person in the end.
I have been seeing Nick every weekend pretty much and this weekend we are going to see the Blue Angels and we wont see each other again till Thanksgiving and then he graduates!!!! Big changes and new thing. I am excited and nervous all at the same time.

Comment by Smoke on November 10, 2009 at 2:10pm

It will be all right Becky. I don't know how, but does not hope feel better than despair?

I do not know how to let go either, but there is not thinking about it. Find a hobby that consumes so much thought and focus that you don't have room for anything else.

I drown my troubles in an MMORPG. I don't know if the free ones are any good, but used gamecube games aren't very expensive.

Comment by Trish on November 9, 2009 at 11:34pm

Beckilynn~Well shucks....don't really know what else to say cept hang in there. Just kidding...I always have something to say. LOL Blood is thicker than water and you will always be his mom. That can never be undone!!!! He is forever your son!!! Something no one else can take from you!! He can pout, defend her, defy his upbringing but he is always your son!!! Just focus on what you have till he gets his head screwed on right. If he doesn't do it himself the Navy will do it for him. Rest assured. The Navy is good that way. The Navy has been a wonderful experience for me and has made my son into an amazing man and they are not done with him. God is working here too. Let him take care of this and you focus on you. Take care of yourself. This kinda stress is not good for you.(((((hugs)))))

Comment by Sandy (Brian's mom) on November 9, 2009 at 11:10pm

beckilynn - so sorry for all that you are going thru - wish I had some wise words of wisdom to give you to help. My prayers are with you.

Comment by beckilynn*Cody's mom* on November 9, 2009 at 2:32pm

The last Dan talked to Cody he was a very confused and upset young man. He finally realized Leslie might be cheating on him. I don't understand why he gets that now. Even HER friends have been telling him for months. He told me he trusts her. I think he feels the need to brace up and defend her against me no matter what. I have tried keeping my mouth shut. I have tried being nice. I have tried telling him what I see. I talked to him about going to the chaplain and getting it annulled and doing it the right way so he doesn't get into trouble. He threw a fit and very strongly stated he was not getting his marriage annulled. She didn't want him in the Navy. Maybe this is her way of getting him out. Maybe this is his way of getting out. I don't know anymore. I won't hear from him for awhile now because he is mad at me. So no news is just I'm mad at mom right now. Everyone I know has been telling me to let this go. No one I know can tell me how. I have been trying. Even went to counseling. Nothing is working. I still hate her for what she has done to this family, to him, to his future. Now I am mad at him for treating us like she has been treating him. Lying and sneaking around. I suppose he learned it from the best. I don't know how to let him go. He has gotten himself into something I couldn't fix if I wanted to. So there isn't any of me cleaning his messes. He has to do this. Now he has her messes to clean too. It is like he has just decided to take every value I spent his life teaching him and is throwing it away. What about Honor, Courage, and Commitment? He isn't showing any of them except commitment to this twirp.

Comment by Trish on November 9, 2009 at 1:59pm

Oh Beckilynn~ Sooooo sorry. No new news then???? And you have to remember....No News is Good News. Maybe he is handling his business. That would be a good thing. And also remember everything can be undone. Remember what we talked about. He will do the right thing in the end. They always do. Let him live. And that means cleaning up his own messes. Take a deep breath. And Big Hugs to ya....

Comment by beckilynn*Cody's mom* on November 9, 2009 at 1:31pm

Just wanted to give you all an update. Cody graduated A-School. He is now in C-School. He eloped while he was home on leave between the two. Didn't tell anyone. Her family still doesn't know. I only found out through another person who thought I should know. It is unclear if he had permission or not from the Navy. What should I do? Part of me wants to keep my mouth shut to save what little is left of our relationship. The rest of me wants to ask the Navy just what happened to protecting these young men from opportunistic girls like this. She still isn't working; still doesn't have a driver's license; has a reputation around the community college she attends (and not for her academic acheivements); and still takes every opportunity to drive the wedge deeper between Cody and us. I think she may have succeeded in breaking things this time. My heart is absolutely broken. This is worse than when he left for bootcamp. At least then I knew I would get an improved version back in 8 weeks. Instead I have a son who is bent on lying and hiding things now, not following the rules (I think), and throwing his life down the toilet.

Comment by Tricia - Steve'sWife on November 9, 2009 at 7:46am

He's not going anywhere, he's on hold. He's "supposed" to get orders next Monday. We're hoping he'll get to stay in GL.

Comment by Sandy (Brian's mom) on November 9, 2009 at 12:36am

Trish- Have a wonderful visit with Kyle!!!! - Tricia - Congrats to your husband on graduating!!! Sounds like you had a very eventful time in Chicago!! Where is he going now? Hope everyone is doing good!!! Evveryone update soon! Take care all - - Sandy

Comment by Tricia - Steve'sWife on November 8, 2009 at 9:23pm

Congrats to all the corpsmen who graduated Friday! I know we have at least 3 in this group. The ceremony was great. It was very relaxed (minus my parking ticket and 2 mile hike to get back to the car... that's another story all together!!) I hope everyone had a great weekend.

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