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so wow! new plans for the wedding i see.. (or i should say MARRIAGE, new plans for the marriage lol since its all about the marriage, not the wedding right?! love u) well that's really cool.. julian and i were talking about doing something similar to that.. because its just hard to plan a wedding around our boys' every changing, unpredictable schedule huh? get married, and then you will be able to BE together and get all the benefits.. and take your time planning the beautiful ceremony/reception and all that. I know it's not the way normal couples do it, but hey.. military couples are anything but normal, and like we've been saying.. its not about the wedding!! anyway, moral of the story.. i'm on your side, girl.
i hate so much the judgement of getting married so early in life and in our relationship.. we havent been together very long, and i'm only 22... so people just dont understand, they think we're crazy and that it isnt going to work out.. and blahblahblah, no one ever gets it but you girls on here. i swear the military does something to mature you (you as in the person/people involved whether its the men, or US) and realize what you really want in life and whats important to you.. i am in love and want to marry julian and nothing is going to stop me..... but once in a while the things people say will get in my head and freak me out.. some guy i went to college with (he's a lot older than me) was telling me last night how he was engaged to a girl that he was with for 5 years.. they moved all over the country together, the whole works... and then they broke up and he is at a completely different place in his life. thats scary to me! and all of the statistics and divorce rates and everything... i know i need to block all of that out and trust and believe in what my heart is telling me because i KNOW that i am in love and belong with this man... ugh. this is all coming out right now because i had that conversation last night and its on my mind.. you know? anyway..
woo hooooo you are so close to graduating! that is very exciting, you're in that last stretch! i know how you feel, i just experienced that this past spring. it's going to feel great to graduate... i cant believe youre already applying for grad school!! you are one determined chica, i gotta hand it to you!! i dont think i'll ever be going back to school.. but if i did want to give grad school a shot i'm sure i would want to take a break for a couple years first. but hey.. power to ya!
good luck with school and work and the wed-- MARRIAGE plans and everything else going on in your life! KEEP IN TOUCH GIRLIE!! :)
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