"Ladies...thank you all for your friendship and listening ear...I haven't been on for quite some time due to the fact that my children's father decided against remaining part of our family upon entering the navy.
Sooooo....I…"
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GirlfriendRN commented on nicole~a sailors girl(:'s group 'PROUD NAVY GIRLFRIENDS:)'"I'm so excited for you !! U brought a HUGE smile to my face!!"
GirlfriendRN commented on nicole~a sailors girl(:'s group 'PROUD NAVY GIRLFRIENDS:)'"Congrats Corie...just be sure he truly means it. I'm sorry to say it but some guys go into the navy, as mine did, and they find themselves confused, with so many options and challenges. Mine also didn't communicate often, then spoke of…"
GirlfriendRN commented on nicole~a sailors girl(:'s group 'PROUD NAVY GIRLFRIENDS:)'"Nicole congrats his finishing up. On the other hand I do understand about those games they play - keep hope alive. If it's meant to be then it will. If not then, no worries, you seem to have good, solid plans ahead of you - focus on that. And I…"
Anti M replied to GirlfriendRN's discussion 'NOT getting married, but HAVE children together...what about THEIR benefits?' in the group Girlfriends, Fiances,and Wives of Sailors"Yeah, what Angie said about his pay in Japan is right. I was there a good long while and I had a husband paying child support, so I have a couple more thoughts.
His paygrade may have gone up one when he graduated from A school. And he is getting…"
GirlfriendRN commented on Keisha's group 'Girlfriends, Fiances,and Wives of Sailors'"This is ALL very good advice ladies...keep it up!"
Angie replied to GirlfriendRN's discussion 'NOT getting married, but HAVE children together...what about THEIR benefits?' in the group Girlfriends, Fiances,and Wives of Sailors"I wish you the best of luck on this. Stay strong, try and do somthing for you each day (even it if is just reading a few pages of a book you like while hiding in the bathroom for some peice :~}) You need to understand you are a very important person…"
Angie replied to GirlfriendRN's discussion 'NOT getting married, but HAVE children together...what about THEIR benefits?' in the group Girlfriends, Fiances,and Wives of Sailors"That sucks! But it is better to find out now then you having moved to Japan.
Keep on with the court order to get the money, keep receipts of everything, write your ex and ask about the money, if he sends you anything back keep it. (send e-mails) So…"
Angie replied to GirlfriendRN's discussion 'NOT getting married, but HAVE children together...what about THEIR benefits?' in the group Girlfriends, Fiances,and Wives of Sailors"I would still recommend you get a court order, he can go back on his word anytime.
You will need to ask him about his pay as his base pay will be the same no matter what. He will receive COLA (Cost of living allowance) when overseas. He could have…"
Angie replied to GirlfriendRN's discussion 'NOT getting married, but HAVE children together...what about THEIR benefits?' in the group Girlfriends, Fiances,and Wives of Sailors"If the father won't willing put the children on the proper paper work to get them medical coverage, than you need to get a civilian lawyer and take him to court for benfits for the children and child support. That is a civilian matter, but once…"
GirlfriendRN commented on nicole~a sailors girl(:'s group 'PROUD NAVY GIRLFRIENDS:)'"Yes, Corie...we are here for ya."
GirlfriendRN commented on nicole~a sailors girl(:'s group 'PROUD NAVY GIRLFRIENDS:)'"Corie...I'm sorry to hear your dilemma. I understand, I truly do, (read my posts & you'll see that I do). Hang in there. It can be tough for these guys to get used to the idea that they aren't near their loved one and won't…"
Angie replied to GirlfriendRN's discussion 'NOT getting married, but HAVE children together...what about THEIR benefits?' in the group Girlfriends, Fiances,and Wives of Sailors"The father needs to do all the paper work to get your childern benfits, if he dosen't you will need to go to the civilian courts to get an order. Than that needs to be gotten to his command so they will order him to get your kids medical and…"
Anti M replied to GirlfriendRN's discussion 'NOT getting married, but HAVE children together...what about THEIR benefits?' in the group Girlfriends, Fiances,and Wives of Sailors"More thoughts:
Medical and dental: for tricare, go to the site and see if Prim or Standard work best for you. It will be easiest of he pays the premiums by allotment, and you take care of the co-pays. If he's deployed, the co-pays could be…"
Anti M replied to GirlfriendRN's discussion 'NOT getting married, but HAVE children together...what about THEIR benefits?' in the group Girlfriends, Fiances,and Wives of Sailors"My husband had a son without being married. He was on the page two, and had an ID card. His mother could take him on base with that card and shop at the NEX and the commissary. The commissary has to be indicated on the card though. Sometimes it…"
GirlfriendRN commented on nicole~a sailors girl(:'s group 'PROUD NAVY GIRLFRIENDS:)'"Aw Nicole! That was sooooo sweet! Enjoy the time spent...that is too precious !"
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- At 3:53pm on October 7, 2010,
Angel of Freedom said… - Hi GirlfriendRN, Welcome aboard N4Ms. Looking at the groups you have joined, it sounds like your sailor is at GL in bc. My son was there almost 4 yrs. ago. Then he decided to learn about nuclear power and submarines. He just got his first deployment recently He called a while back and said, "Hi mom. I'm in S. Korea." He was almost laughing. He sounded so happy and confident. It helped me. I sure miss him though, even if he is older than most of the ones just joining the Navy. Blessings,
- At 4:22pm on September 12, 2010,
JessicaB-Sailor Mom said… - Welcome to N4M’s. This site is full of information, support and encouragement. Please join the group http://www.navyformoms.com/group/bootcampmoms , (just point and click on the http address) there you will find new N4M’S as well as more seasoned N4M’s to guide you along. My son graduated boot camp Jan 29, 2010 and is now stationed in Sicily Italy as an IT.
If your profile or profile name contains last name (even if it is different from your rct/sailor)your rct/sailors first name or your e -mail address, I recommend that you change it for the safety of your sailor. Remember, this is a public site and anyone can become a member and read comments posted here.
Be wary of who you friend…before you accept a friend go to their page and see how active they are, the comments left, groups they’ve joined. If they have a lot of friends but no groups, no comments, click ignore and DO NOT FRIEND THEM…it is likely they are spammers, e-mail address harvesting
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